Hanging Out


Hanging Out Registration Re-Opens in April 2024

Hanging Out will be the jewel in the crown of Barbara’s Club. To be honest, I think it’s going to be the jewel in the crown of my lifetime’s work. That’s what it feels like. —Barbara Sher, 2012

Barbara called this members-only program Hanging Out, because she wanted it to be like those wonderful moments just hanging out together at her retreats and weekend workshops. Patty Newbold will be your guide now that Barbara is no longer with us.

Registration Re-Opens April 4, 2024
$197 for a full year

Barbara put together her most beloved ideas and stories and wrote her best stuff ever for Hanging Out. This was bigger than writing another book. It was a huge job, but every minute was a labor of love for her. And with this program she gives you videos from her retreats and workshops, loads of audio, new interactive stuff and other amazing things we can’t describe here or we’ll go on forever. All this in addition to the exercises that made a big difference to you in the past.

After almost a year HO is still my favourite thing on the internet and in my inbox. So many things I could just read over and over and find something each time. The world didn’t change but I’m different in it. -JD

I’m excited about this exercise. I’ve printed it out to work on over the weekend. Barbara, I look forward to working it through and circling back. You’re a gemstone! -A Hanging Out member in Week 38

Once you’re a member, the rest will be easy. Every week, three times a week, via email, I’ll send you some very special things to read, watch and do. They’re not what you expect, I’m pretty sure of that. As much as you may like my books, what you’re going to find in Hanging Out is very new and very different. You’ll want to make comments, compare notes and talk to the other members of Hanging Out, and that’s exactly what happens here. It changes the whole experience into something entirely new, something most of us are missing and need as much as vitamins and sunshine. The effect on most members has been profound.

Registration Re-Opens April 4, 2024
$197 for a full year


You can’t get Hanging Out all at once like a book that ends up on that pile of books you plan to read, and you can’t stick it back on your bookshelf and forget what your life is supposed to be. Barbara learned too much about what’s important for us humans to take that kind of chance.

You’ll receive emails from her every Monday, Wednesday and Friday for a year, announcing the day’s video, audio message, Identity Exercise, Reality Series success story or Brain Candy she prepared for you. Barbara’s Director of Sher Success Teams and WriteSpeak Coach, Patty Newbold, will be reading and responding to your online comments. You’ll also be able to read Barbara’s replies to comments from our first eight years of Hanging Out.

Hanging out has really developed clarity in my life. One thing that I love about you Barbara is that you never tell anyone to just try harder and you don’t shame in any way. You support and encourage which is so very rare. You make sense of the non-sense. This group has provided something wonderful for me. Even the subtle messages are always very powerful. —Michelle

So what is it?

It’s easier to say what it’s not. Hanging Out is not a how-to course or a motivation program. I sometimes think it’s designed for people who have worked too hard and forgot what it’s like to wake up in a goal-free world full of fresh, stimulating ideas, fun and camaraderie.

I’ll always have courses for you on Barbara’s Club so you can find your dreams and achieve your goals, but Hanging Out is not about goal achievement. Instead, it’s more like what one member called “a profound and delicious form of Identity Rehab.”

I absolutely love the idea of Barbara’s Club being integrated into the everyday world—nothing to leave behind—and a consistent source of inspiration. Thank you! —Victoria, by email

If you join us here, Barbara’s emails and online messages will be popping into your life briefly, happily and relentlessly, over and over, waking up your senses, making you laugh and go exploring and, most important of all, helping you remember who you are and how good life is supposed to be.

You’ll receive emails from Barbara every Monday, Wednesday and Friday for a year, announcing the day’s video, audio message, Identity Exercise, Reality Series success story or Brain Candy she prepared for you. Barbara’s Director of Sher Success Teams and WriteSpeak Coach, Patty Newbold, will be reading and responding to your online comments. You’ll also be able to read Barbara’s replies to comments from our first eight years of Hanging Out, before she passed away.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for creating Hanging Out with Barbara. There have been so many “favorite” posts. One that stands out is your description of how you decorated your apartment with all the glorious references to color. I wanted to sink into one of your armchairs and absorb it all. Finding our originality. Yes. Discovering ways to express it. Yes. Realizing that time is short and excuses long. Yes. Boxing up all our should, would and could and relaxing into today, into now, into this moment. Yes. Finding that joy is the reward for allowing oneself to just be who you are. Yes. So many wonderful lessons I have learned, relearned, and unlearned this year…What I have learned this year has changed my life. For that I am eternally grateful. – A Hanging Out Member at the end of the year

No risk – full refund if you cancel your subscription within the first 30 days

30 day money back guarantee$197 for a full year

OR pay by the month – $24 per month

Registration Re-Opens on April 4, 2024


Buying a membership for someone else? Purchase a gift certificate. Good for a full year of Hanging Out at the then-current price whenever your recipient registers, which must be during an open registration period.

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874 thoughts on “Hanging Out

  1. Hi There, so sorry to hear that registration was until 12.27.2020, is there a way to make an exception…Today is 12.29.2020 and is the day that I can pay for the fee.

    Thank you for your consideration!
    Silvia
    480-329-9828

  2. Hi There, so sorry to hear that registration was until 12.27.2020. Is there a way to make an exception, please. Today is 12.29.2020 and is when I can afford to pay the fee.
    Thank you!
    Silvia

  3. Dear Barbara Sher Club Friends,
    I am very happy to receive these prompts throughout the weeks.
    I wish to share a gift at this time of a link to a YouTube video that I helped post entitled Plucking – Dr. Margaret Berry, D.C.. In the video Margaret demonstraits a rejuvenating massage technique called Plucking. plucking the ligaments and tendons. She offers a full demonstration of this technique and then a 5 minute shortened version that one can do after showering or even before getting out of bed in the morning. It helped her get back to work as a Chiropractor after a serious car accident. At the time she was told that she would no longer be able to continue to offer chiropractic work due to her injuries. She was able to fully recover. Happy Holidays of Light Greetings, Michale

  4. Dear teams,

    I didn’t have an opportunity to follow the decision of the court in this regard – does anybody know if by now new members are accepted for the Hanging Out that starts on December 27th?

    Love,
    Ana

    • New members are being accepted through December 27th. Two buttons to join are on this page. What is not available this time is the monthly payments option. The full year option is accepting members every day, and I expect we’ll have a great time together.

    • Hello Sally,
      As noted above and in comments below, the monthly option will be added as soon as the court allows it. The pandemic has slowed the estate settlement process substantially. The new team carrying the ball after Barbara’s death hope it occurs by April 2021. Meantime, enjoy Barbara’s other materials.
      Best regards, Ty

  5. I just saw Barbara’s wonderful Ted Talk and I thought “ I would like to talk to this sage and down to earth woman”. Maybe she can help me find my dream!
    Then I saw that she had died this year. I immediately started to cry because death took another person, and death is final.
    For a brief moment I had hope that maybe she could help me get through the lonliness and non connection I feel in my life.
    Thank you for listening. I really needed to tell Barbara how much I liked her ease and message.
    Maybe she can help me from heaven.

    • Kathleen, order Barbara’s wonderful books! I have been a follower for years, even went to one of her workshops in Memphis, TN. She was so genuine and I had the pleasure of speaking to her. BUY HER BOOKS! Watch her videos! Keep in touch with all the people who follow her and I guarantee you will fill the void in your life by understanding that we ALL feel the way you do. Just DO IT ! Best of everything to you, dear.

  6. Hi, I wonder why does data for registering always change? Previously, it was October 2, later on, October 8. Now is December 10. It looks the carrot ahead horse nose.

  7. I’m interested, too. I’m not sure how diligent I can be about it, all things considered. But it will give me something to look forward to, and a place where I can hang out. 😉

    • Traveler, we will admit new members just as soon as the judge due to review Barbara’s will does so. Barbara and I made plans for all of her online programs to continue with or without her, but we did not figure on a pandemic making the process of appointing her executor such a slow one. Please add your name to her mailing list to be among the first to hear that we’re admitting new members again.

    • No and yes, Lisa. Anyone who started Hanging Out in January, before Barbara’s death, is still involved. We will admit new members just as soon as the judge due to review Barbara’s will does so. Barbara and I made plans for all of her online programs to continue with or without her, but we did not figure on a pandemic making the process of appointing her executor such a slow one. Please add your name to her mailing list to be among the first to hear that we’re admitting new members again.

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