Hanging Out


Hanging Out Registration Re-Opens in October 2020

Hanging Out will be the jewel in the crown of Barbara’s Club. To be honest, I think it’s going to be the jewel in the crown of my lifetime’s work. That’s what it feels like. —Barbara Sher, 2012

I call this members-only program Hanging Out, because I want it to be like those wonderful moments when we’re just hanging out together at my retreats and weekend workshops.

Patty Newbold will be your guide.

Registration Re-Opens October 8, 2020
$197 for a full year

I’ve put together my most beloved ideas and stories and written my best stuff ever for Hanging Out. This is bigger than writing another book. it was a huge job, but every minute was a labor of love for me. And with this program I give you videos from my retreats and workshops, loads of audio, new interactive stuff and other amazing things I can’t describe here or I’ll go on forever. All this in addition to the exercises that made a big difference to you in the past.

After almost a year HO is still my favourite thing on the internet and in my inbox. So many things I could just read over and over and find something each time. The world didn’t change but I’m different in it. -JD

I’m excited about this exercise. I’ve printed it out to work on over the weekend. Barbara, I look forward to working it through and circling back. You’re a gemstone! -A Hanging Out member in Week 38

Once you’re a member, the rest will be easy. Every week, three times a week, via email, I’ll send you some very special things to read, watch and do. They’re not what you expect, I’m pretty sure of that. As much as you may like my books, what you’re going to find in Hanging Out is very new and very different. You’ll want to make comments, compare notes and talk to the other members of Hanging Out, and that’s exactly what happens here. It changes the whole experience into something entirely new, something most of us are missing and need as much as vitamins and sunshine. The effect on most members has been profound.

Registration Re-Opens October 8, 2020
$197 for a full year

You can’t buy Hanging Out all at once like a book that ends up on that pile of books you plan to read, and you can’t stick it back on your bookshelf and forget what your life is supposed to be. I’ve learned too much about what’s important for us humans to take that kind of chance.

You’ll receive emails from me every Monday, Wednesday and Friday for a year, announcing the day’s video, audio message, Identity Exercise, Reality Series success story or Brain Candy I’ve prepared for you. My Barbara’s Club partner and Director of Sher Success Teams, Patty Newbold, will be reading and responding to your online comments. You’ll also be able to read my replies to comments from our first eight years of Hanging Out.

Hanging out has really developed clarity in my life. One thing that I love about you Barbara is that you never tell anyone to just try harder and you don’t shame in any way. You support and encourage which is so very rare. You make sense of the non-sense. This group has provided something wonderful for me. Even the subtle messages are always very powerful. —Michelle

So what is it?

It’s easier to say what it’s not. Hanging Out is not a how-to course or a motivation program. I sometimes think it’s designed for people who have worked too hard and forgot what it’s like to wake up in a goal-free world full of fresh, stimulating ideas, fun and camaraderie.

I’ll always have courses for you on Barbara’s Club so you can find your dreams and achieve your goals, but Hanging Out is not about goal achievement. Instead, it’s more like what one member called “a profound and delicious form of Identity Rehab.”

I absolutely love the idea of Barbara’s Club being integrated into the everyday world—nothing to leave behind—and a consistent source of inspiration. Thank you! —Victoria, by email

If you join me here, I’ll be popping into your life briefly, happily and relentlessly, over and over, waking up your senses, making you laugh and go exploring and, most important of all, helping you remember who you are and how good life is supposed to be.

You’ll receive emails from me every Monday, Wednesday and Friday for a year, announcing the day’s video, audio message, Identity Exercise, Reality Series success story or Brain Candy I’ve prepared for you. My Barbara’s Club partner and Director of Sher Success Teams, Patty Newbold, will be reading and responding to your online comments. You’ll also be able to read my replies to comments from our first eight years of Hanging Out.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for creating Hanging Out with Barbara. There have been so many “favorite” posts. One that stands out is your description of how you decorated your apartment with all the glorious references to color. I wanted to sink into one of your armchairs and absorb it all. Finding our originality. Yes. Discovering ways to express it. Yes. Realizing that time is short and excuses long. Yes. Boxing up all our should, would and could and relaxing into today, into now, into this moment. Yes. Finding that joy is the reward for allowing oneself to just be who you are. Yes. So many wonderful lessons I have learned, relearned, and unlearned this year…What I have learned this year has changed my life. For that I am eternally grateful. – A Hanging Out Member at the end of the year

No risk – full refund if you cancel your subscription within the first 30 days

30 day money back guarantee$197 for a full year

Registration Re-Opens October 8, 2020

OR pay by the month – $24 per month

Contact webmaster@barbarasclub.com if you encounter any problems with payment or if you don’t receive a “Thank You! And Welcome to Hanging Out” email within an hour after paying. Before paying by the month, check out PayPal’s PayPal Credit option (US only) on the full year price.

Registration Re-Opens on October 8, 2020


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751 thoughts on “Hanging Out

  1. Hello, I learned about Barbaras work by reading her book “I could do anything…” It has been a big support in a time of change… l would like to join a success team in Austria (Vienna) or Germany (Ruhrgebiet) but I am not sure wether the contact details are up-to-date. Or are there any leaders doing online workshops? Thanks for the help!

  2. I was very saddened to hear the news of Barbara’s passing. When I first watched her TED talk a few years ago it spoke to something inside me. My thoughts are with you all and her family. That is some remarkable achievements and legacy she has passed on!

    I’d never had any support growing up in my family unit and as an adult was unable to provide any support to myself so my “confidence” feels like a mask that could slip at any moment.

    It honestly feels like I’m living day to day with absolutely zero purpose. Like if I died tomorrow it wouldn’t even matter as I’ve contributed very little.

    I’ve always liked the idea of Radio and voice over work but it’s a highly competitive industry with thousands competing for the same jobs and I just find reasons to not bother. I have stayed in retail for 20 years and I’m now 36. I close my eyes and can see the future and it fills me with dread as I don’t see anything changing.

    Patty I was wondering if you knew of any success teams based in London I really need the help.

    Many thanks from the UK!
    Chris

  3. Thank you, Patty, and to all those other people behind the scenes giving scanners and wonderfully different people a home.

    • Thank you, Monika. That includes Tammy Garver (book clubs guide), Patrice Jenkins (WriteSpeaker teleworkshop presenter), Doret Jordaan (social media guru), Rebecca Hyde (bookkeeper), Jennifer Blair (Survival Guide for Dreamers co-author), Gudrun Schwarzer (heading up Barbara’s Success Teams in Germany and Austria and parts of Switzerland), all the other Sher Success Teams leaders and Sher Coaches around the world, and a bunch of new volunteers updating Barbara’s Wikipedia article and soon her Kilim Women website. I am so blessed to work with these very talented people and to know all of the wonderful members of Hanging Out.

  4. To all who asked:

    Hanging Out will continue.
    WriteSpeak will continue.
    The Book Clubs will continue.
    The Survival Guide for Dreamers will continue.
    Sher Success Teams will continue.
    The Sher Coaches Barbara trained continue to coach people.
    The next Dare to Soar Telesummit will take place on February 6, 2021.

    Although we all thought we had a few more years before she departed this earth, Barbara made sure we were trained and ready to continue helping Dreamers and Scanners live the wonderful lives they were born for.

  5. This is so sad. So grateful to this amazing woman, may she be in bliss.
    Is her last project going to continue?

    • I am curious about the same thing myself.
      I discovered Barbara after she died and so I feel I missed a great opportunity.
      I would love to know if there are any party ideas around or teams and join.

  6. OH myyyy….my deepest sympathies and sadness at the news…..I am sadened deeply sadened. May the wings of angles be with you all. XO Marie

  7. Oh, I just got the sad news. My thoughts are with Barbara’s family and friends.

    I will be forever grateful to Barbara for buying a few of my paintings. She said she’s send me a picture of her with them but never did, I regret not following up about it. I hope my paintings go to a good home, to someone who loved them as much as she did, a couple were my favourites and difficult to part with.

  8. I pray that you are in heaven teaching the little one if that is what you like. You can do anything and much more now, fly.

  9. After 21 years The Official Barbara Sher Bulletin Board Forum is no more.

    As member #75 it is a Sad day indeed seeing it close. 🙁

    Thank you Barbara for all you have done and will continue to do.

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