Author, Speaker, Coach Barbara Sher passed away on May 10, 2020.
Read Barbara’s obituary here. Barbara’s Club and all its programs continue in the hands of those she trained.
Registration for Hanging Out is open now!
If you have not yet experienced the jewel in the crown of Barbara’s Club, please check out Hanging Out. Enjoy a full year of treats every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. To make sure everyone gets to know plenty of other people, we now open registration only twice a year. Full year registration is open right now through November 30th, and monthly registration opens on November 25th. We will begin hanging out together on Monday, December 1st. Don’t miss this! Prior members still have access to all messages they paid for. Links are on the Hanging Out page when you are logged in.
Cash for Your Dreams

Need $100 to $2,000 to buy some equipment, training, or assistance with the next step toward living a life you love?
Learn seven different strategies for earning it in your spare time. Find the ones that fit best with your talents, personality, circumstances, and location. You will receive seven lessons, one a day, by email.
Start Cash for Your Dreams whenever you like.
Survival Guide for Dreamers
If you’ve got a dream (or wish you had one) it’s time to stop being stuck. Let us send you 365 days of Barbara’s help with procrastination and Resistance. This new program is designed to give you exactly what you need to finally get moving. Here’s how it works: One day at a time for a full year Barbara will be with you via a brief email, helping you get past the procrastination and resistance that have kept you from achieving your dreams. That’s it. No exercises to do. No discussions to keep up with. Just an email a day to encourage you and teach you how to deal with whatever prevents you from going after your dreams. Begin your Survival Guide year at any time.
Barbara Sher Book Clubs
Our next book club will read Live the Life You Love from March 26th through July 15th of 2026. Registration will open on March 12th, 2026. I hope you’ll join us. Read more about it here. Members of ongoing book clubs should contact webmaster@barbarasclub.com for assistance. Even after our official reading period has ended, members are still welcome to add comments for the full year. You won’t be alone in finishing the exercises. And please visit this page to see what other book clubs we have scheduled.
The Dare to Soar Telesummit Recordings
All of the mini-workshops at our September 13, 2025 Telesummit were recorded, and you can listen to all of them for free.
Thinking Through Refuse to Choose: 101 things every Scanner should know
Are you a Scanner? These are people with a different (and often misunderstood) type of mindset: they’re curious and smart, always happiest when learning something new. But no matter how promising a path may appear, Scanners can never give up their love of exploring. And therein lies the problem: despite their passionate engagement with the world and their love of life, Scanners are unable to decide on one path, and they’re often afraid that there’s something horribly wrong with them. It’s usually forgotten that such people were once admired for their wide range of knowledge, even called Renaissance thinkers. Now they’re often labeled as immature, lazy dilettantes by a culture that prizes specialization above all else. I wrote this 99-cent Kindle book (with two great helpers) to highlight the top 101 takeaways from my book, Refuse to Choose! Use All of Your Interests, Passions, and Hobbies to Create the Life and Career of Your Dreams. Use it as an introduction or as a reminder after you read the book. Purchase this Kindle book here.
Find a Success Team or Become a Sher Success Teams Leader
Isolation is the dream killer. Find your people in a Sher Success Team and learn how to identify and achieve your dreams in Barbara’s 8-Week Workshop for new teams. We always need more Sher Success Teams leaders, so if helping others go after their dreams is your dream, there’s a business in a kit waiting for you, a Leader’s Kit with everything you need to run that same workshop.
Be sure you are on the mailing list to hear about new programs the moment they are available. The mailing list sign-up is under Barbara’s photo at the bottom of this page.
Hey everyone, I’d love to invite you to join us in this year’s cohort of WriteSpeak. Come discover your message, your audience, and learn how to get your book completed and become a paid speaker! If you’re on the fence and have some questions, please come visit with me and Patrice on October 8th at 1:00pm at our Q&A session. Go here to register in advance for this meeting:
https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/OX74sv4pTji9a1JE8YqoeA
After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the meeting. See you then!
Hi Just now reading chapter 5,and am doing exercise 1. I do not think I had a fear of success EVER.. Just the opposite… Whatever I tried, I was successful. The problem was that I got tired of doing the right thing, getting up one more step on the ladder,. until I decided to leave it all and moved to the island I live on now. .It took me 2 years to actually do that move so i think there was some fear there.
I have Barbara to thank for the life I live now. If anyone is hoping to live a life they dream of, any of Barbara’s books will start you on your way.
Thanks, Judith!
Hi Patty. Damita here. Would l9ve to connect. Just coming back in the fold after several years.
Welcome back, Damita. Webmaster@barbarasher.com reaches me.
Hi There! I would love to find a current success team, however when I click on the link above, and enter my state (Ca), every one of the people listed as leaders has a link that goes to an error message.
Those are links to open your email client. If you use webmail or don’t have your devise set up to create an email from these links, they won’t work. We’ll be updating this very soon.
In the meantime, right-click, ctrl-click, or long-press the links to copy each leader’s email address.
Patti, I haven’t figured out how to access the hanging out. I get I notice from you that talks about the identity exercise for example but then when I tried to go any further it says that I have to have some passwords or something and I don’t know what ones I need to use
I am sending you a password email. Watch for it, as they sometimes find their way to spam or junk folder.
Do any of the courses include recorded videos, or video conferencing meetings (for example Zoom)?
Hanging Out starts each week with a short video or audio clip from Barbara to get us thinking. And the WriteSpeak Teleworkshop and the Sher Success Teams 8-Week Workshop include lots of audios recorded by Barbara. However, most of Barbara’s videos are on YouTube, where you can see them for free.
Our Sher Success Teams by Phone now use videoconferencing unless there’s a member whose rural internet connection won’t allow it.
When will the next Refuse to Choose book club be?
July of 2024.
I would like to join a club and an idea party. Is there an online group or in person group available? I live in Southern California. Thank you!
I just saw Barbar’s Ted talk and would like to join a success team and ultimately lead one.
Is this program still available?
http://shersuccessteams.com/works.htm
It is! Come join us.